Monday, September 9, 2013
One Journey Completed, Another Begun...
Our beloved Jeff entered heaven's gates and into the arms of our Lord last night. He fought the fight and became victorious. Even though he is no longer with us and we weep for our loss we have comfort in the fact that he is dancing, singing and talking God's ear off in heaven. This entire week+ we have been by Jeff's side, we played some of his favorite songs and some of ours. I would like to share the song that has touched us and impacted us the most:
"Dancing In The Sky" Dani & Lizzy
Jeff has been such an inspiration to so many, he always will be. He was the best Son, Grandson, Brother, Uncle, Cousin, Nephew and Friend we could have ever asked for. Even in his last good moments with us he was more concerned about how we were, how we felt than he was about himself. He never complained, never questioned and never became angry about his condition. He trusted God's plan and that is all that matters.
When we were camping labor day weekend, Mom had gotten a video monitor to keep an eye on him in the trailer in case he needed help. On Thursday, August 29 he was lying in the trailer to take a nap. Through the video monitor we could hear him praying. We found this so inspiring and special we felt we needed to video tape it. We placed a video camera next to the monitor and what we have on tape will forever change our lives, maybe yours as well. He was saying "Thank you God" over and over and began talking to God. He said he was going to sleep for 10 days. He expressed that in 10 days he would see God. He counted the days out on his finger and kept expressing that in 10 days he was going to see God. This was before his trip to the ER that Saturday. At the time, we honestly didn't think much of it. We were just so smitten by the amount of love and thanks he gave to God. Someone who could easily be resentful and angry was so humble and full of love. A lesson all of us need to take and learn in our everyday lives. The day Jeff passed, September 8, was exactly 10 days after his prayer. This is not a coincidence. God was speaking to Jeff's heart, he knew where and when he was going and he was grateful and excited. As much as we are grieving for our own loss, we are thankful for his gain.
I am in the process of uploading the video so that Jeff can witness to you as he has us. We are excited to share Jeff's heartfelt moment. We are going to miss you so much Jeff, our family and our lives are forever changed. Until we meet again...
The following is the obituary that will be printed in The Muskegon Chronicle and The Grand Rapids Press:
Mr. Jeffrey J. Rands, age 24, completed his journey when he went to be with his Lord on 09/08/2013 following a 2.5 year battle with brain cancer. Please visit www.jeffsvictoriousjourney.blogspot.com to hear his story. Jeff was born March 9, 1989 to Robert and Patti (Van Spronsen) Rands in Grand Rapids. He was a lifelong resident of W. Michigan. He served with the U.S. Marine Corp. in Iraq. Jeff has continuously brought joy and inspiration to all he has left behind. Jeff is survived by his Mom and Dad; 2 sisters, Kassandra (Justin) Schmidt of Walker and their children Makayla and Dylan; Tonya (Andrew) Ketchum of Muskegon and their future son Colton; grandparents, John and Harriet Van Spronsen of Hudsonville, Ronald Sr. and Dorothy Rands of Jenison; several aunts, uncles, and cousins. THE FUNERAL SERVICE for Jeff will be held at 11:00 AM Thursday, September 12, at The Lee Chapel of Sytsema Funeral Homes, Inc., 6291 S. Harvey St., Norton Shores, 49444, (231) 798-1100, with Pastor Jeremy Wegner officiating. VISITATION at the funeral home will be from 2-4 & 6-8 PM Wednesday, and 1 hour prior to the service on Thursday. You may visit the family’s online guestbook at www.sytsemafh.com Contributions in memory of Jeff may be made to the Poppen Residence of Harbor Hospice.
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